Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Happy Birthday Lans . . .

We got together with your parents for your birthday party- this is officially tradition. Marina sent this picture a few days prior to our gathering of your little boys writing notes to you.  Matthew said to Marina, "Is that Andrew's mommy?"  Marina told him yes and that it was his mommy too.  Matthew said, "Wow, two mommies?. . .that's too much."  Marina told him that you can never be too loved . . never have too much love.    It breaks my heart a little that he doesn't remember you, but I am so thankful Marina is there to love these little boys for you.  She has gone above and beyond what we would ask or dream of her doing to honor you and preserve you.  We are grateful for her.  




And were were grateful to gather as a group of those who love you to send up our love notes to you.  A good cry and a good laugh are always a good way to honor you.  

 Your cute dad bought himself a new #1 Dad shirt since you weren't here to do it.  We were laughing about how you two would use that line from Groundhog day to each other, "Hey Moron, your bus is leaving!"   And about how their old dog would poop all over the house - I think one of you stepped in it, Ben was thrilled.  :)






















 Happy Birthday Ilana!!!!!






 I hope you got the message that we still and forever will miss you and love you. . . .
Love this picture of Andrew staring up into the heavens with your little face snuggling daddy.  

 Your mama's message got caught in a tree. . . Ben was determined to get it for you . . :)

  These pics are a little out of order - but so special from the day.


 The mamas. ...
Your babies. . . 

 Writing notes


 Ready to launch!

 The perfect parents. .:)  As you know.







Friday, March 15, 2013

Big middle boys

While Ben and Marina prepared for their rather surprising hospital departure for Mr. Nathan, we had the privilege of watching your little sweeties. :)  And boy do we love them!  
 They are so good for me and my Jacob seriously talks about his best friend Matthew daily.  Poor little man got his daddy's eczema and this picture was taken a week after a rather terrible flare up; sweet Marina researched what to eat and how to treat it and then stayed up nights rubbing lotion on his body by the hour.
 This Lana face.  He must be the most gentle giant around.  He is just absolutely darling.
 Your boys started a new day care that  was closer to home and  worked better with Ben's schedule.. so far so good.
 I guess Matthew has struggled a little lately being gentle and kind to Andrew - aka beats him up and at times can be a little defiant.  I think kids are always hardest on their parents and I am certain he will grow out of it. Totally normal I told Ben, some kiddos are just a litle it more aggressive but a little discipline and love and he'll be blowing Andrew kisses and making him breakfast in no time.  . .. let's hope anyway, because Andrew is huge and will soon be able to reciprocate :)



 He was so proud of his hula hooping skills- I put some thick cream on his face (the reason for the white beard).

Look at this kiddos neck curl. . . .
Then they were off to meet their new lilttle brother . . . :)